When I moved from Brooklyn to Puerto Rico two years ago, with my husband and then-3-year-old son, we were firmly “one and done.” Life with a toddler in New York City was too hard; we spent weekends at chain-link fence-enclosed playgrounds that were either shadeless and sweltering in the summer or freezing and depressing in
This essay as they said it is based on a conversation with Marta Milans. It has been edited for length and clarity. I got married in 2021. I got pregnant naturally shortly after, but unfortunately it was an ectopic pregnancy. My doctors discovered that I had some uterine issues that needed to be addressed. I
